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Outline
of VRCP Visits to
Small Rural Churches 9
- Initially,
we contacted pastors or church chair persons in order to schedule
our visits and describe our program for our time together.
- We
suggested, ahead of time, that the evening begin with a pot luck
supper at about 5:00 pm. This was optional, but we Mennonites get
comfortable over food, and we hoped to establish a comfortable atmosphere
for the evening. It also helped us to get an early start, which
made it easier to travel home after the meeting. In fact, this only
came together a few times, but when it did it worked well.
- Before
the meal, we had the pastor or leader introduce us briefly and we
took a moment or two to introduce the reason for our visit. We requested
that a local person open in prayer for the meeting and the meal.
- After
the meal (or before the meeting), we moved the chairs into a circle
(or around a table, or shifted pews around, or just gathered in
a corner) and then sang a congregational hymn together. We asked
the group to select two songs that speak to them of steadfastness,
perseverance and hope in difficult times.
- We
presented a short Bible reading and meditation (attachment A).
- From
there we moved on to a more detailed introduction of the Vibrant
Rural Churches Project and presented our expectations: "We
trust that rural congregations of MC Sask will view our time together
as a positive event, where the focus is not on reliving the pain
of decline or grieving the past, but on present successes and future
potential and possibilities. We certainly do not want to deny or
minimize the pain and frustration, but in this meeting we hope to
look with you beyond those difficulties. Our desire is for the congregations
we visit to take ownership of the event and its outcomes. We are
not coming to tell you what to do, but to learn together from your
experiences."
- We
reviewed the statement of objectives which we had brought along,
written out on large paper, and hung on the wall (attachment B).
- Then
we called for the second congregational song.
- We
introduced the discussion period with comments along these lines:
"After these introductory comments and explanations, we want
to listen to what your congregation has to say. We have previously
shared five questions that we hope will help us all talk about the
internal faith life of your congregation and its outward expression
in community ministry (attachment C). We will have additional questions
to expand on these, and will use them to lead/encourage discussion
(attachment D). Again, our objective is to understand and record
what is working for you and what gives you hope, so that others
may learn from your experience."
- We
did this as a whole-group discussion, unless there were more than
about 20 people present. We used flip charts so we didn't lose what
the group had to say. This proved to be very important, both in
helping the group to think about and get excited about what they
were doing, and in terms of building their trust in our ability
to record carefully what they were saying. We normally did our own
recording, although occasionally we needed to ask one of those present
to be a recorder.
- Closing
prayer.
- Those
groups that had chosen not to do a 'carry-in supper' normally provided
a snack after the meeting and there was good fellowship around this
food.
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